This outstanding and rewarding program, originated by the
Exchange Club of Quincy, Ill., brings together energetic, enthusiastic youth
and residents of nursing homes. Through the Adopt-a-Grandparent program,
fifth through eighth grade students from local schools are given the
opportunity to adopt a nursing home resident as a "grandparent." These young
people build lasting friendships through monthly visits to the care
facilities. In addition to the regular visits, the young people are
encouraged to write letters, make cards and send presents to their adopted
grandparents. The seniors are encouraged to do likewise.
This program provides the seniors with a sense of purpose
and belonging, and helps children to better understand the aging process
while developing a sense of social responsibility and community awareness.
Because of this, the program should be limited to fifth, sixth, seventh and
eighth graders, who are better able to understand these concepts.
To get started, contact and explain the program to local
school principals. Once the schools agree to participate, contact the
directors of selected nursing homes or other care facilities to obtain their
support and approval and determine which residents are best suited for the
program.
Take a photograph of each "grandparent" and provide a brief
biography. Before bringing the students and seniors together for the first
time, the activities director and an Exchange Club representative should
visit the participating classes to orient the students on the life-styles of
their prospective "grandparents." Topics addressed should include: the aging
process; physical condition of the seniors; and wheelchair operation.
The first meeting should be relaxed and informal, with the
students and seniors chatting about likes and dislikes over a dish of ice
cream or some other refreshment. The initial encounter is also an
appropriate time for the participants to be presented with official adoption
certificates by Exchange Club representatives. Official Adopt-a-Grandparent
certificates are available from National Headquarters.
The subject and organization of subsequent meetings should
be determined by the students, seniors, teachers and activities directors.
Nature walks, games, sharing stories and photo albums and holiday parties
are just a few of the many activities possible. Encourage the participation
of the youths’ parents in all activities.
While your Exchange Club will continue to play a supporting
role, it is recommended that club members allow the seniors and students the
freedom to maintain an ongoing relationship on their own. Club
representatives should maintain contact with the schools and nursing homes,
to offer any special assistance that may be necessary.
It is recommended that the Adopt-a-Grandparent program be
conducted for at least one full school year with each group of students and
seniors.
The Golden Key Program
The Golden Key program is another worthwhile activity which
brings together young and old for the benefit of both. The program utilizes
the resources of concerned seniors to help address the problem of latchkey
children, those children who must stay home alone after school until their
parents return from work. Through the Golden Key program, volunteer seniors
call the latchkey children each day to verify their safety and provide
companionship.
To get started, your Exchange Club representatives should
contact the local board of education to determine if there is a need for
this service in the community. If so, club representatives should seek the
board’s approval and support, as well as that of the individual schools
involved.
The next step is to recruit volunteer seniors. Local senior
centers are a good source for volunteers. Your Exchange Club may want to
hold an open meeting at a senior center, where members can explain the
program and ask for volunteers. Your club may also publicize your volunteer
recruitment effort with news releases and public service announcements. The
older persons who would like to participate in the program should be
required to apply through the local board of education, which must carefully
screen each applicant with the assistance of the police department.
At the same time, the participating schools announce the
program to students’ parents. Again, Exchange Club leaders could hold an
open meeting to explain the program to interested parties. Parents
interested in participating should then complete an application form for
each child they would like to enroll in the program. Once completed, the
application should be returned to the school.
When the Golden Key Pal is paired with a child, the child’s
name and telephone number, the parents’ business phone numbers, the family
physician’s number and emergency procedures should be provided for the Pal,
with instructions to call at designated times every school day to check on
the child. If the child does not answer at the designated time, the Pal
should continue to call for a specified time and then contact a parent to
verify the child’s safety. The child is furnished with the code name and
phone number of the Golden Key Pal to call for companionship, conversation,
or assistance.
The child should know that if the Pal does not call at the
prearranged time, he is to contact the Pal. If the Golden Key Pal does not
answer, the child should call a parent. This ensures the well-being of the
seniors, who in some cases have little contact outside their homes.
Club members should keep regular communication with the
participating schools to make certain the program is running smoothly. Your
Exchange Club may also choose to honor the participating seniors at a
special club meeting or banquet.
The Calling Card Program
This simple, effective program enables Exchange Club members
to provide daily phone calls to older persons. In many cases, a brief phone
call can make a world of difference to a solitary man or woman who feels
neglected or forgotten. Even more importantly, the daily phone calls allow
the Exchangite to regularly check on the seniors’ health and safety.
The Calling Card program is easy to implement and keep
going. The area office on aging, senior housing project directors,
hospitals, and physicians specializing in treating older persons can all
provide valuable assistance in locating suitable candidates for the project.
Next, get in touch with those seniors to see if they would like to take
advantage of your club’s Calling Card program. Obtain the name, address, and
phone number of each interested individual, and if possible, the name and
phone number of a neighbor who can be reached, if necessary.
The next step is to assign one or more of the seniors to
each Exchangite who is able to participate. Then give each Exchangite a
Calling Card — an index card with the name, address, and phone number of the
person they’ll be calling.
Once the callers and seniors have been matched up, the
members should call, introduce themselves, and determine a practical daily
time to call. It’s also a good idea to find out a little more about the
seniors at that time, such as if they have any significant medical problems.
After all the preliminaries have been handled, the
Exchangite simply calls the senior each day at the designated time.
The daily conversations can be brief and to the point, but
if time permits, the member should try to spend some time getting to know
the senior and finding areas of common interest.
If the senior does not answer when called, the Exchangite
should wait five minutes and try again. If there is still no answer, the
designated neighbor should be called and asked to walk over and make sure
the senior is all right.
Once the Calling Card program is in place, it should
continue for as long as possible. Since it requires only minutes a day on
the part of each Exchangite, it can and should be a year-round affair. An
Exchange Club can take the Calling Card program one step further by
presenting the seniors with food baskets or other appropriate gifts at
various times of the year, such as Christmas, Easter, or Senior Citizens
Month, observed each May.
Senior Citizen of
the Year Award
Many older Americans are still vital, contributing members
of society, who deserve to be properly recognized for their achievements. A
special award of some kind, presented to a senior who has performed an
outstanding service to the community or excelled in some way, can serve to
not only honor and reward that individual, but also to heighten community
awareness and appreciation of the many important contributions of older
citizens.
For example, your Exchange Club may choose to annually
present a Senior Citizen of the Year Award to an older person who continues
to serve your community in some significant way. Clubs are encouraged to
develop their own criteria for the award on the local level. Suitable
candidates for such an award can be found by contacting nursing homes,
senior centers, churches, social service agencies, and similar
organizations. Numerous plaques suitable for this type of award are
available from National Headquarters.
Nursing Home
Visits and Assistance
Many residents of nursing care facilities are often
forgotten except at holidays, but they need friendly visitors and special
assistance all year long. Besides the Adopt-a-Grandparent program already
described, Exchange Clubs can arrange for members to periodically visit the
residents, sponsor parties and other special activities or donate needed
equipment or supplies to local senior centers or nursing homes. Some
suggested donations include: large print books and magazines; hearing aids
and dentures; old eyeglass frames (to be recycled); Bingo prizes; and craft
supplies.
Clubs may also wish to plan an outing for nursing home
residents. Many times, such an event can be a pleasant change of pace from
the seniors’ daily routines.
The speakers featured at your Exchange Club meetings could
also make excellent speakers at nursing homes and senior centers. At the end
of your regular meeting, invite the speaker to appear at a senior citizens’
gathering, offering to make all the necessary arrangements.
Check with local nursing care facilities to determine how
your Exchange Club can best help.